Incredible but true, our worst enemy most of the time in life could be us. That‘s surprising right? That is why I myself considered it incredible.l
Mostly when we think we do all our best to do what’s right to get the best result ever, there is something within us call subconscious mind. Our subconscious mind sometimes works behind the scene to only destroy our most important goals in life.
That happens when we are unconsciously sabotaging ourselves and keep getting the same all bad result all the time in our life. Subconscious does work, sometimes for us and sometimes against us. It works mostly against us when we can’t have control of our past harmful behaviour; it’s like destroying something while at the same time our main goal is to build it.
So if you feel like your own success is being sabotaged again and again; and you don’t know how it keeps happening, why it’s happening and worst about it you can’t figure out why it’s happening. I am suggestion you to try to implement these 3 simple steps in your life to find out the bull that might be in your subconscious mind.
Step 1 – there is a bull in the herd, how to identify it
As we all know that our subconscious is the place where we keep all sort of ideas, positive and negative the idea or thought that is stimulated the most in our subconscious mind will finally manifested by our subconscious in our life. And our conscience is there to either congratulate us or blame us depending on the impact of our actions.
If you realize that your subconscious is sabotaging you, you will need to angrily discuss with it to claim right and make it give you what you want in life. You can do that by applying these strategies in your life.
-Know what you really want and spend sometime in meditation
-Focus more on the things that you get done before which are able to lead you to an achievement of your goals
-And finally try to identify the obstacle that is holding you back from achieving success in your life.
If you are having a hard time identifying your main obstacle (that bull in the herd) the strategy number one is to deal with your biggest obstacle one by one.
And secondly after you finished identifying your main obstacle that preventing you from achieving your goal your homework is to separate that bull from the herd.
Step 2- how would you separate the bull from the herd?
There is a saying that goes: what you focus on expands; you should never focus your attention more on your main obstacle if you do so instead of staying away from it you would attract it more and more in your life that will make your bull grow wild. Instead, you should try to find the reason WHY that bull is there.
I used to meet some people who packing lot of money to go on a cruise just to escape a situation or someone else. Others love to spend their time playing games, watching TV looking for a satisfaction. Any of these activities will not make them feel better or change their life’s circumstance.
Rather than identify the main reason you are experiencing your problem. why in fact are you you held back? why in fact are you you frustrated? why in fact are you you anxious, not happy? What is the main cause of your problem?
One you finally identified that bull, the cause of your main obstacle and separated it from the herd your next and final duty is to use that bull to grow your herd.
Step 3 – how to use the bull, your roote cause insatisfaction, to grow your herd?
Luckily you were able to identify the cause of your problem now you can use it in a way to be your benefit. How will you do that? You will simply try to feed your bull what it needs without detracting yourself from your main goal.
Many of us have a need of something or not while doing the task at hand. For example myself particularly I love to be in a quiet place to really focus on what I am doing I get distracted easily. Although some other people like my brother he likes listen to musing while he is reading or studying.
So whatever your main obstacle could be you can always get to a point to master it. Stop it or use it to your advantage. The best way you can start is to practice the visualization start to see yourself experiencing the life you really see yourself in.
I can help you to do that by helping you first identify you number ONE Success Blocker. From that point you will know more easily how to attract anything that matter to you the most.
So you should start now there is no need to overthinking about what you know you really want, start now click that link.